1. Nature of the network
Lotus & Wattle is a private introduction network. It is not a public dating app, and it does not guarantee a relationship, marriage, or any specific outcome.
2. Voluntary participation
Participation is voluntary. You are free to apply, pause, decline, or withdraw at any stage of the process.
3. Truthful information
You agree to provide truthful and reasonably accurate information when submitting your application, including profile details, contact information, and uploaded photos.
4. Manual review and selective access
All applications may be reviewed manually. Acceptance is not automatic, and access to the network may be limited, delayed, or declined where appropriate.
5. Privacy and discretion
The network is designed to protect privacy. Profiles are not intended for public browsing, and personal information should be handled with discretion.
- Do not misuse, distribute, or casually share private profile information.
- Respect for privacy is part of the culture of the network.
6. Mutual respect and consent
Any introduction or further communication should proceed only with mutual willingness. No one is required to continue beyond their comfort level.
7. Personal responsibility
Each participant remains responsible for their own communication, decisions, boundaries, and personal judgment. Lotus & Wattle facilitates introductions but does not control personal relationships.
8. Safety first
If at any point you feel uncomfortable, pressured, or unsafe, you should pause communication and seek appropriate support. Safety matters more than momentum.
9. Acknowledgement
By submitting an application, you acknowledge that you have read these principles, understood them, and agree to participate in good faith.